Sarah on Russell
What were you hoping for?
A romantic connection. If not that, then at least the chance to get to know someone new.
First impressions?
He was tall, slim, and seemed to be in a hurry – maybe because I was already seated when he arrived.
What did you talk about?
His passion for Montessori education, children’s play versus split digraphs, my trip to Iceland, and tree-planting projects. It was a whirlwind of abstract topics.
Most awkward moment?
It would be hard to feel awkward around Russell.
Good table manners?
Definitely. He noticed I was struggling with mussel shells and got me an extra plate.
Best thing about Russell?
His friendly nature and enthusiasm for community projects.
Would you introduce Russell to your friends?
Yes, why not.
Describe Russell in three words.
Talkative, big-hearted, unconventional.
What do you think Russell made of you?
That I’m passionate about animals and nature, academic, and enjoy a big tapas spread.
Did you go on somewhere?
No. Russell stayed behind to finish the cold leftovers and insisted I was fine to leave.
And… did you kiss?
No.
If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
Maybe a slower pace to the conversation, focusing on a few more concrete details about our lives.
Marks out of 10?
7.
Would you meet again?
Maybe as friends. We’ve talked about visiting the east coast to see the puffins.
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Russell on Sarah
What were you hoping for?
A very intelligent woman who enjoys a good, meaningful chat.
First impressions?
A warm smile.
What did you talk about?
Sarah’s whale-watching trip in Iceland and her family living in southern Italy. I loved her story about her parents giving her apricots instead of chocolate eggs for Easter.
Most awkward moment?
I probably talked too much. In fact, I know I did!
Good table manners?
Sarah handled the tapas dishes like a pro.
Best thing about Sarah?
Her ability to share and exchange ideas.
Would you introduce her to your friends?
Yes.
Describe Sarah in three words.
Interesting, adventurous, attractive.
What do you think Sarah made of you?
A chatty Yorkshireman who never stops talking.
Did you go on anywhere?
Sadly, no. I got the sense Sarah had had enough and wasn’t interested in me.
Did you kiss?
No kiss.
If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
I hadn’t been on a date for a long time… [text appears cut off]After nearly 15 years, it showed. I wish I had relaxed more.
Rating: 9/10.
Would you meet again?
We exchanged numbers to visit Bempton Cliffs in North Yorkshire.
Sarah and Russell dined at Bar Iberico in Nottingham. Interested in a blind date? Email blind.date@theguardian.com.
Frequently Asked Questions
Of course Here is a list of helpful and natural FAQs about going on a blind date after a long hiatus based on the statement It had been almost 15 years since my last date and it really showed
General Beginner Questions
1 What exactly is a blind date
A blind date is when you go on a date with someone youve never met before typically arranged by a friend family member or a dating app
2 Why would someone go on a blind date after 15 years
Common reasons include wanting to get back into the dating scene feeling lonely being encouraged by friends or simply feeling ready for a new connection after a long time
3 What does it really showed mean in this context
It means the person felt rusty or out of practice They might have felt awkward nervous or unsure of modern dating etiquette and those feelings were probably noticeable during the date
4 Isnt it normal to be nervous
Absolutely Being nervous is completely normal especially after a long break Almost everyone feels some anxiety before a first date and its even more pronounced when youre out of practice
Practical Tips Preparation
5 How should I prepare for a blind date after so long
Keep it simple Choose a comfortable public place like a coffee shop Have a few conversation topics in mind Most importantly focus on being yourself and having a casual nopressure conversation
6 What should I talk about
Good topics include hobbies movies travel and everyday life Its best to avoid talking extensively about an expartner politics religion or deeply personal problems on a first meeting
7 What if theres an awkward silence
Dont panic A brief silence is normal Have a simple lighthearted question ready to ask like Seen any good movies lately or Have you been on any interesting blind dates before A smile can also help break the tension
Common Problems Concerns
8 What if I feel like Im failing at dating
Remember a single date is not a test you can pass or fail Its just one conversation to see if you connect with someone If it doesnt go perfectly its valuable practice for the next one
