Sex

When we feel aroused, our bodies respond in some very specific ways. For men, this often means increased blood flow to the penis, leading to an erection. For women, a similar process occurs internally

๋ฌด์—‡์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ํฅ๋ถ„์‹œํ‚ค๋‚˜์š”? ๊ทธ ๋‹ต์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋งˆ๋‹ค ํฌ๊ฒŒ ๋‹ค๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊ธฐ๋ถ„์ด ๋‚ดํ‚ฌ ๋•Œ ํ‘œ๋ฉด ์•„๋ž˜์—์„œ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์–ด๋–ค ์ผ์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚ ๊นŒ์š”? ์„ฑ์ƒ๋ฆฌ์˜ ์ƒ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋ณธ๊ฒฉ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์—ฐ๊ตฌํ•œ, ํ˜น์€ ์ ์–ด๋„ ๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋…ผํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ธˆ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ...
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'There's no such thing as normal': 13 key lessons about sex from two decades of Sexual Healing

์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์„ฑ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋งค์šฐ ์–ด๋ ต๊ฒŒ ๋А๊ปด์„œ, ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋‚ด์–ด ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ์ž‘์„ฑํ•ด ๊ฐ€๋””์–ธ์ง€์— ๋ณด๋‚ด ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋‹ต๋ณ€ํ•ด ์ฃผ๊ธธ ๊ธฐ๋‹ค๋ฆด ๋•Œ๋ฉด ์ €๋Š” ํ•ญ์ƒ ํฐ ํŠน๊ถŒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง€๋‚œ 20๋…„๊ฐ„ ์ด ์นผ๋Ÿผ์„ ์“ฐ๋ฉด์„œ,...
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The secrets to a great sex life: how to keep the spark alive in the bedroom

์„น์Šค๋Š” ํ•˜๋ฃจ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ, ์ผ์ •์— ๋งž์ถฐ ํ•˜๋‹ค ๋ณด๋ฉด ๋งˆ์น˜ ์˜๋ฌด์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋А๊ปด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์—…๋ฌด๋‚˜ ํ”ผํŠธ๋‹ˆ์Šค ๋ชฉํ‘œ์™€ ๋‹ฌ๋ฆฌ, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ข…์ข… ์„น์Šค๋ฅผ ์ž๊ธฐ๊ณ„๋ฐœ์ด ์•„๋‹Œ ์ž๊ธฐ๋งŒ์กฑ์œผ๋กœ ์—ฌ๊น๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฐ์ธ ๊ด€๊ณ„์—์„œ๋„ ์„น์Šค๋ฅผ...
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"Are you asking me to help you be gay?": Insights on sex and desire from 40 years as a psychoanalyst

์ธ๊ฐ„์ด๋ž€ ๋ถˆํ™•์‹ค์„ฑ, ๋‚ด์  ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ, ๋ชจ์ˆœ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์‚ด์•„๊ฐ€๋Š” ์กด์žฌ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ž์‹ ์˜ ์š•๋ง์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์™„์ „ํ•˜๊ณ  ํ™•์‹ ์„ ๊ฐ€์ ธ์•ผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ์„ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ์ž๋ž€๋‹ค. ์†Œ์…œ ๋ฏธ๋””์–ด์™€ ์œ ๋ช…์ธ ๋ฌธํ™”์—์„œ ๋‚ญ๋งŒ์ ์œผ๋กœ ํฌ์žฅ๋œ ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์˜ ์ด๋ฏธ์ง€์— ๋‘˜๋Ÿฌ์‹ธ์ธ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ถˆํŽธํ•œ...