Jonah on Sunny
What were you hoping for?
Someone fun to share a sunny evening with.
First impressions?
Immediately relaxed and friendly—so easy to talk to that the waiter had to circle back a few times.
What did you talk about?
All the places Sunny has lived, her writing about techno chatrooms (I like techno too), and guessing which sibling we each were (oldest, etc.). We were both wrong.
Most awkward moment?
When I said my go-to karaoke song was Nights on Broadway by the Bee Gees, and she asked, “How does that go?”
Good table manners?
Perfect—especially when we both admitted we didn’t know how to do the fancy fork thing.
Best thing about Sunny?
Her openness. I felt completely comfortable talking about anything.
Would you introduce Sunny to your friends?
Yeah, for sure—they’re sick of me.
Describe Sunny in three words:
Warm, curious, funny.
What do you think Sunny made of you?
Probably that I was a bit nervous and definitely a nerd.
Did you go on somewhere?
We went to a pub around the corner—turns out we’d both been there on dates before.
And… did you kiss?
Yes.
If you could change one thing about the evening?
I’d have arrived hungrier and eaten more dessert.
Marks out of 10?
9.
Would you meet again?
For sure, but maybe just as friends.
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Sunny on Jonah
What were you hoping for?
Pure magic.
First impressions?
He was really sweet, and I think we matched each other’s amusement at how silly the whole setup was.
What did you talk about?
Family, work, last meals (death-row style), our shared love for Ira Glass’s voice, and his yearly biking accidents that land him in the ER.
Most awkward moment?
When I did a full spit-take with my beer on the street, and he didn’t laugh. Probably too American for him.
Good table manners?
He told me afterward he was just pretending—and he fooled me completely.
Best thing about Jonah?
He was so easy to talk to.
Would you introduce Jonah to your friends?
Absolutely.
Describe Jonah in three words:
Intelligent, respectful, genuine.
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About Blind Date
Fancy a blind date?
Every Saturday, we pair up two strangers for dinner and drinks, then ask them to spill the details.
What questions will I be asked?
Age, location, job, hobbies, and what you’re looking for in a match.
Can I choose who I’m matched with?
No—it’s blind! But the more you tell us, the better the match.
Can I pick the photo?
No, but we’ll choose the best one.
What personal details appear?
First name, job, and age.
How should I answer?
Honestly but respectfully—remember, this goes out to a big audience.
Will I see the other person’s answers?
No. We may edit for length or clarity.
Will you find me The One?
We’ll try!
Can I do it in my hometown?
Only if it’s in the UK.
How to apply?
Email blind.date@theguardian.com.Here’s a more natural and fluent version of your text while keeping the original meaning:
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How was your date?
I think we saw the good in each other.
Did you go somewhere else afterward?
We grabbed one more beer down the road.
And… did you kiss?
My mom didn’t raise a prude.
If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
I’d have ordered another main dish.
Rating out of 10?
7.
Would you meet again?
If I ever have questions about competitive off-road bike racing, I know who to ask.
Jonah and Sunny ate at Casa do Frango, London W1. Want to go on a blind date? Email blind.date@theguardian.com.
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Let me know if you’d like any further refinements!
FAQS
### **FAQs About Blind Dates: “Did We Kiss? I Wasn’t Raised to Be Shy About That.”**
#### **General Questions**
**Q: What is a blind date?**
A: A blind date is when two people meet for the first time, usually set up by friends or a dating app, without knowing much about each other beforehand.
**Q: Is kissing on a blind date normal?**
A: It depends on the chemistry and comfort level—some people kiss, others don’t. There’s no rule, so go with what feels right.
**Q: How do I know if my blind date is going well?**
A: Look for signs like easy conversation, laughter, and mutual interest. If they lean in, make eye contact, or flirt, those are good indicators.
#### **Kissing & Physical Affection**
**Q: Should I kiss my blind date?**
A: Only if you both feel the vibe! Read body language—if they seem open and engaged, a kiss might be welcome. If unsure, ask.
**Q: How do I make the first move without being awkward?**
A: Start with light touches and see how they respond. If they reciprocate, you can lean in for a kiss.
**Q: What if I go for a kiss and they reject me?**
A: Laugh it off politely—”Oops, misread the moment!”—and move on. No big deal if you handle it gracefully.
#### **Etiquette & Comfort**
**Q: How do I set boundaries on a blind date?**
A: Be upfront but casual. Say something like, “I like taking things slow” if you’re not into quick physical affection.
**Q: Is it weird to talk about past relationships on a blind date?**
A: Keep it light—brief mentions are fine, but deep dives into exes can kill the mood. Focus on the present.
**Q: What if my blind date is pushy about physical stuff?**
A: Politely but firmly say you’re not comfortable. If they don’t respect that, end the date early.
#### **After the Date**
**Q: Should I text after a blind date kiss?**
A: If you liked
