In her memoir “Nobody’s Girl,” Virginia Roberts Giuffre, an activist and survivor of Jeffrey Epstein who died by suicide in April, confronts something even more insidious than abuse. After a harrowing early section detailing her childhood sexual abuse, she writes, “I know it’s a lot to take in, but please don’t stop reading.” When recounting the first time Epstein allegedly forced her to have sex with one of his billionaire friends, she adds, “I need a breather. I bet you do too.”
Throughout the book, Giuffre charms, apologizes, and playfully breaks the fourth wall to ease the discomfort she expects her story to provoke. This is undeniably a book about power, corruption, and industrial-scale sexual abuse, highlighting how institutions often sided with the perpetrator over his victims. Epstein hanged himself in prison in 2019 while awaiting trial, and Ghislaine Maxwell, his accomplice, is serving a 20-year sentence for sex trafficking—outcomes largely made possible by Giuffre’s testimony. Yet it’s also the story of how a young woman became a hero, all while feeling the need to win over readers who might recoil from her experiences.
Her assumptions aren’t unfounded. Giuffre, who was 41 when she died and co-wrote this sharp, insightful book with journalist Amy Wallace, understood that victims of sexual violence are often pitied at best and reviled at worst. (Consider a Daily News headline: “Jeffrey Epstein Accuser Was Not a Sex Slave, but a Money-Hungry Sex Kitten, Her Former Friends Say.”)
I approached “Nobody’s Girl” with two questions. First, does it shed light on the so-called Epstein list—the roster of prominent men to whom Giuffre and others were trafficked? The closest we get to a new allegation is her description of one man, a “politician” and “former minister,” who choked and beat her nearly unconscious. She notes he’s too powerful to name. (When she told Epstein how violent the man had been, he coldly replied, “You’ll get that sometimes.”)
Second, does the book make life harder for Ghislaine Maxwell, now in a low-security Texas prison and courting President Trump for a reduced sentence? (Her latest appeal was rejected earlier this month.) Giuffre’s account likely pushes any chance of reprieve further away. It was Maxwell—or “G Max,” as she insisted the girls call her—who spotted Giuffre working as a 16-year-old locker-room assistant at Mar-a-Lago in 2000 and brought her to Epstein’s house for a “massage interview.” Giuffre was forced to have sex with Epstein that day, and Maxwell participated in that and subsequent assaults. “Maxwell began lashing out at me during our threesomes,” Giuffre writes. “If I complained, she hurt me more.”
This leads to a third question: given its brutal content, why read this book? I’ve heard people say they “don’t have the stomach for it”—a phrase no victim should hear. While the book is unflinchingly tough, it’s also a clear-eyed, necessary account of how sex offenders operate. Giuffre’s fear that being raped and trafficked would make her unrelatable to most people doesn’t come true. The narrative does what legal depositions can’t, placing us in the room with her. It brings her legal status as a victim to life, showing us a girl like anyone we know, like ourselves, and illuminating the reality of those trafficked while being “free” to walk away.
Abused since the age of six, by the time she met Epstein, Giuffre writes, “I had…”I was subjected to sexualization against my will and survived by going along with it. I was a people-pleaser, even when it came at a great personal cost. For a decade, men disguised their abuse under the false pretense of ‘love.’ Epstein and Maxwell knew exactly how to exploit that same twisted vulnerability.
Giuffre’s accounts of Prince Andrew, whom she alleges was forced to have sex with her three times—including once during an orgy on Epstein’s island—paint him as foolish and grotesque. “We undressed and got into the tub, but didn’t stay long because the prince was in a hurry to move to the bed… I remember the entire episode lasting less than half an hour.” Prince Andrew denies all of Giuffre’s claims, including having sex with her, being trafficked to him by Epstein, or ever meeting her. However, after reading the book, my focus shifted from the prince to the casual visitors at Epstein’s New York mansion—the prominent men and occasional woman Giuffre says she met at dinners there.
I can’t help but wonder: what did these people think a 17-year-old was doing at the table? Only Melinda Gates, who met Epstein once and later cited him as a reason for her divorce from Bill Gates, seemed to grasp what others missed. Giuffre quotes Gates’ statement after that meeting: “I regretted it the moment I walked in. He was despicable. The embodiment of evil.” This clarity apparently eluded even brilliant minds like the MIT professors whom Epstein continued to advise long after his conviction as a sex offender.
Giuffre took pride in holding Epstein and Maxwell accountable. Yet, for any survivor of sexual violence, the path to recovery—let alone confronting abusers publicly—can be overwhelmingly difficult. Early in the book, Amy Wallace details Giuffre’s troubled final months, marked by multiple health issues and alleged domestic abuse by her Australian husband, Robert Giuffre. (Robert Giuffre’s lawyer has not commented due to ongoing legal proceedings.) On April 1, Giuffre wrote to Wallace: “It is my sincere wish that this work be published, no matter what happens to me.” Three weeks later, she was found dead on her remote Australian farm, leaving behind three children.
In a 2009 lawsuit against Epstein, Giuffre’s lawyers stated that the abuse caused her to “lose the capacity to enjoy life,” with injuries so severe they were permanent. The same could be said of this vital, brave, and tragically posthumous book. Nobody’s Girl: Memoir of Surviving Abuse and Fighting for Justice by Virginia Roberts Giuffre is published by Doubleday. To support the Guardian, order your copy at guardianbookshop.com. Delivery charges may apply.
Frequently Asked Questions
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General Beginner Questions
1 What is Nobodys Girl about
Its the memoir of Virginia Roberts Giuffre who details her experiences as a survivor of sex trafficking and abuse at the hands of Jeffrey Epstein and his powerful associates including Ghislaine Maxwell
2 Who is Virginia Roberts Giuffre
She is a key whistleblower and victim in the Jeffrey Epstein case Her testimony was crucial in bringing Ghislaine Maxwell to justice and has implicated other powerful figures
3 Is this book just about Jeffrey Epstein
While Epstein is a central figure the book is primarily about Virginias personal story of survival the corruption that enabled the abuse and her long fight for justice
4 Is the book difficult to read
Yes it can be The book contains graphic and harrowing descriptions of sexual abuse manipulation and trauma It is emotionally challenging but important
5 Why should I read this book
It provides a crucial firsthand account from a survivors perspective helping to expose the systems of power and corruption that protect abusers Its a powerful story of resilience
Deeper Advanced Questions
6 What does the book reveal about the network of enablers
It details how Ghislaine Maxwell recruited and groomed young girls and how a circle of powerful individuals were either involved or turned a blind eye
7 How does the book handle the legal battles
Giuffre recounts her long fight for justice including civil lawsuits the fight to void a nonprosecution agreement that shielded others and the immense pressure she faced to stay silent
8 What is the significance of the title Nobodys Girl
It reflects her feeling of being abandoned by the systems meant to protect herfrom her family to law enforcementand her journey to reclaim her own identity and voice
9 Does the book discuss her allegations against Prince Andrew
Yes it provides her account of the events involving Prince Andrew which became a central part of the public and legal battles surrounding the Epstein case
10 What is the main takeaway from a review of this book
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