Lokacin da Tori Dunlap ta rubuta wasiƙa ko imel ga ma'aurata maza da mata, tana saka sunan mace a farkon gaisuwa. Lokacin da babbar kawarta ta yi aure, Dunlap ta jira har sai an sanya hannu kan takardun canjin suna a hukumance kafin ta sabunta sunan miji a lambobin wayarta. Waɗannan ƙananan ayyukan tawaye ba aikin fafutuka ba ne. Su "microfeminisms" ne, ko kamar yadda Dunlap, mai shekaru 31, ta bayyana su, "ƙananan ayyuka don daidaiton mata, sabanin zuwa zanga-zanga ko ba da gudummawa ga wani abu da kuka yi imani da shi."
Mata marasa aure suna sayen gidaje da yawa. Maza da suke saduwa da su ba sa amsawa da kyau. Karanta ƙari.
Dunlap, marubuciya kuma mai gabatar da shirye-shiryen podcast daga Seattle wacce ta mai da hankali kan haɓaka ilimin kuɗi na mata, ta saka a TikTok shekarar da ta gabata tana tambayar mabiyanta miliyan 2.4: "Ku gaya mani mafi kyawun hanyar da kuke aiwatar da microfeminism." Sashen sharhi ya cika da amsoshi na musamman—kuma ba gaba ɗaya da gaske ba, kamar fara kowane gabatarwar aiki da cewa "sannu mata da 'ya'yan mata" da "nan da nan ɗauka cewa maza suna magana game da wasannin mata maimakon na maza."
Mata a TikTok sun sake farfado da wannan yanayin a cikin 'yan makonnin da suka gabata, suna raba nasu microfeminisms. "Ina kiran gizo-gizo MOMMY dogayen kafafu," wata mai amfani ta rubuta a cikin taken TikTok dinta. "Kawai dasa itatuwan mata a gidana," in ji wani mai sharhi. "A matsayina na ma'aikaciyar gidan abinci, duk lokacin da ma'aurata suka yi odar abu ɗaya, ina ba mace babban rabo ko mafi kyau," wata ta rubuta.
Misalan sun ci gaba: "Ina amfani da 'ita' lokacin da ban san jinsin dabba ba." Cewa, "'Ina son kayanka' lokacin da suke sanye da rigar wasa." "Maimakon 'Na gode Allah,' ina cewa, 'Na gode Allah mace.'" "Ka ɗauka cewa abin sha mai 'ya'yan itace da laima shine odar namiji."
Mata suna fuskantar duk waɗannan zato na yau da kullun waɗanda ke da matuƙar nuna bambancin jinsi, amma muna yarda da su.
Andrea Press
Kalmar "microfeminism" tana kama da manufar "microaggressions," ko abubuwan da suka faru na yau da kullun na nuna bambanci dangane da launin fata, jinsi, son jinsi, ko nakasa: manajan shago da ke bin abokan ciniki Baƙar fata, yana tunanin za su yi sata, ko iyaye da ke gaya wa ɗansu da ya fito cewa "kawai wani lokaci ne." Microfeminisms suna tunkarar abin da Andrea Press, farfesa a fannin zamantakewa da nazarin kafofin watsa labarai a Jami'ar Virginia, ke kira "nuna bambancin jinsi na yau da kullun" ta hanyar juya matsayin jinsi da ake tsammani. (Ta rubuta littafi kan batun a 2021.)
"Mata suna fuskantar duk waɗannan zato na yau da kullun waɗanda ke da matuƙar nuna bambancin jinsi amma muna yarda da su: mata za su yi abincin dare, ko tambayar su 'kina aiki?' yayin da kuke ɗauka cewa maza koyaushe suna aiki," in ji Press. "[Microfeminism] shaida ce cewa wayewar mata ta ɗan tashi a wannan yanayi na yanzu don su lura da nuna bambancin jinsi na yau da kullun wanda al'adarmu ta haɗa cikin hankali da rayuwa ta al'ada."
A ƙarƙashin wannan gwamnatin shugaban ƙasa mai tsananin adawa da mata, matan Amurka sun fuskanci rugujewar haƙƙin haihuwa da na jama'a, tare da canjin al'ada mai faɗi zuwa ƙiyayyar mata wanda manyan mutane na manosphere na hannun dama ke jagoranta. A kan wannan yanayi, tattaunawar microfeminism "ta zama wannan ƙaramin duniyar mai ban sha'awa na abin da ake nufi da zama mace mai fafutuka a yau," in ji Dunlap. "Waɗannan ƙananan ayyuka hanyoyi ne da za mu iya ba da gudummawa ga daidaitonmu da daidaitonmu."
Jordan Palermo, mai shekaru 24 daga Toronto, ba ta girma da zato na jinsi ba; mahaifiyarta tana aiki yayin da mahaifinta ke yin mafi yawan ayyukan gida da kuma renon yara. Amma daga baya, lokacin da ta sami aiki a masana'antar baƙi, ta gane cewa "mutane da yawa suna aiwatar da matsayin jinsi a rayuwarsu ta yau da kullun ba tare da sanin hakan ba."
Palermo ta yi imani yana da mahimmanci ga mata su yi kira ga microaggressions daga maza waɗanda in ba haka ba za su iya zama ba a lura da su ba, saboda suna magana game da manyan batutuwa game da daidaito da 'yancin kai. Ita kanta tana aiwatar da microfeminism. Lokacin da ta ƙi barin maza su wuce ta a kan titi—maza waɗanda sukan sa ran ta motsa kuma wani lokacin su yi tafiya kai tsaye cikinta—ta ce, "Yana da game da iya ɗaukar sarari a wuraren jama'a."
Mata suna barin abokan zamansu a baya a kan hanyoyin tafiya. Menene ke bayan wannan yanayin na 'alpine divorce'? Karanta ƙari.
Brianna Wood, mai shekaru 34, likita, mai ƙirƙirar abun ciki, kuma uwar yara biyar, ta fuskanci wannan matsala ɗaya da maza, ko da lokacin da take tafiya da 'ya'yanta da keken jarirai. "Ba na motsa daga hanya, amma wannan yana da wuya a yi, musamman idan kai ƙarami ne," in ji ta.
Wood ta saka TikToks game da microfeminism waɗanda aka kalli fiye da sau miliyan ɗaya. Ta ce wannan abun ciki "yana sa wani nau'in namiji ya yi fushi sosai."
Wuraren dijital na iya zama masu ƙiyayya ga mata, tare da masu ƙiyayyar mata suna amfani da ƙiyayyarsu da mugun hali na maza don tsoratar da mata masu fafutuka a cikin akwatunan saƙo ko sassan sharhi. Lokacin da mai tasiri na manosphere ya yi iƙirarin cewa maza sune "ainihin waɗanda aka cutar" na DEI da daidaiton jinsi—wani abin da suke so su faɗa—waɗannan ra'ayoyin suna yaduwa zuwa mabiya da ba a san su ba. Wood ta lura da wasu maza a cikin sharhinta suna kiran microfeminism ayyukan nuna bambancin jinsi—ga maza.
"Ina cewa, eh, ainihin ma'anar ita ce!" in ji Wood. "Idan ka juya rubutun, yana kama da nuna bambancin jinsi ga maza. Don haka idan kana yi wa mata, shi ma nuna bambancin jinsi ne."
Tambayoyi da Amsoshi
Ga jerin tambayoyi da amsoshi game da manufar microfeminisms da kalmar Hello ladies and sons of ladies da aka rubuta cikin yanayin tattaunawa na halitta
Tambayoyi na Matakin Farko
1 Menene ainihin microfeminism
Aiki ne na yau da kullun, ƙarami wanda ke ƙalubalantar al'adun nuna bambancin jinsi ko matsayin jinsi a hankali Ka yi tunanin shi a matsayin ƙaramin aiki na tawaye mai ƙarancin haɗari—kamar gyara zato na jinsi a cikin tattaunawa ko zaɓar kalmomi daban
2 Menene ma'anar kalmar Hello ladies and sons of ladies
Misali ne na wasa na microfeminism Yana juya rubutun gaisuwar gama gari Hello guys and girls ko Ladies and gentlemen Ta hanyar cewa ladies and sons of ladies, yana sanya mata su zama rukunin da aka saba, yana nuna yadda sau da yawa ake ɗaukar maza a matsayin ma'auni
3 Me yasa wani zai yi amfani da irin wannan kalmar
Don yin nuni ba tare da zama mai tashin hankali ba Hanya ce ta nuna rashin daidaito a yadda muke magana da ƙungiyoyi Yana da ban dariya, ɗan wayo, kuma yana sa mutane su dakata su yi tunani game da harshe
4 Shin wannan ba kawai siyasar gaskiya ta wuce gona da iri ba
Ba haka ba Yana game da wayar da kai fiye da hana magana Manufar ba ita ce hana kalmomi ba amma tambayar me yasa wasu abubuwa suka zama ma'auni Yawancin mutane suna ganin shi marar lahani kuma yana sa tunani, ba abin ƙyama ba
5 Shin microfeminisms suna taimakawa da gaske
Ee a cikin ƙananan hanyoyi masu ma'ana Suna iya canza yanayin tattaunawa, sa mutane su ji an haɗa su, kuma a kan lokaci su canza yadda muke tunani game da matsayin jinsi—ɗaya ƙaramin lokaci a lokaci
Tambayoyi Masu Zurfi
6 Yaya microfeminism ta bambanta da mansplaining ko manspreading
Microfeminisms amsoshi ne ga rashin daidaiton jinsi ba rashin daidaiton kansu ba Mansplaining hali ne na raina mata, microfeminism aiki ne na ƙarami wanda ke tunkarar wannan yanayin
7 Shin microfeminisms na iya komawa baya ko kuma a fahimce su ba daidai ba
Ee Idan mutumin da ke amfani da shi an ɗauke shi a matsayin mai fushi ko kuma yanayi ya yi tsanani, yana iya zama kamar mai ɓoye fushi Mabuɗin shine yadda ake gabatarwa—amfani da ban dariya, sautin laushi, da kuma bayyananniyar "Ina nuna wani abu kawai"
