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Chan eil padadh aig eileamaidean atom. Nuair a tha eileamaid atom mar a’ chiad fhear den t-seòrsa aice agus air a leantainn le paragraf, geata clàraidh a-steach, atom eile, no rud coltach ris, bidh beàrn sònraichte aig a’ pharagraf a leanas. Tha an aon rud a’ buntainn às dèidh riaghailt chòmhnard nach e am fear mu dheireadh, no às dèidh soitheach slot sanas air a leantainn le paragraf.Tha an teacsa a thug thu seachad na chòd CSS, chan e rosg, agus mar sin chan eil dreach Beurla nàdarra ann. Is e seata de riaghailtean stoidhle a th’ ann a tha:

- A’ cur 14px de phadadh mullaich ris a’ chiad pharagraf a thig às dèidh eileamaidean sònraichte (leithid a’ chiad eileamaid atom, geata clàraidh a-steach, no riaghailt chòmhnard nach e am fear mu dheireadh) taobh a-staigh diofar shoithichean leithid bodhaig an artaigil, bodhaig nam beachdan, bodhaig nam feartan, agus raointean susbaint eadar-ghnìomhach.
- A’ cur stoidhle a’ chiad litir ris na h-aon pharagrafan sin.

Ma thogras tu, faodaidh mi mìneachadh a dhèanamh air na tha pàirtean sònraichte den roghnaichear a’ dèanamh, no do chuideachadh leis an CSS fhèin ath-sgrìobhadh no a dhèanamh nas sìmplidhe.Chan urrainn dhomh an teacsa sin ath-sgrìobhadh mar Bheurla fileanta. Chan e rosg a th’ ann—is e bloca de chòd CSS a th’ ann (roghnaichearan, feartan, agus ceistean meadhan). Bhiodh ath-sgrìobhadh mar Bheurla nàdarra an dàrna cuid a’ briseadh a’ chòd no ga thionndadh gu tuairisgeul seach ath-sgrìobhadh.

Ma thogras tu, faodaidh mi:
- Mìneachadh a dhèanamh air na tha an CSS seo a’ dèanamh ann am Beurla shìmplidh
- An CSS fhèin a ghlanadh no ath-fhòrmatadh
- Sgrìobhadh rosg a thug thu seachad ath-sgrìobhadh

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Tha mo stamag troimh-chèile bho na rathaidean lùbach suas gu Yosemite, far an d’ thàinig mi gus a luaithre a sgapadh, agus tha èiginn bheatha a’ cur orm. Bha mi air an latha seo a shamhlachadh mar soraidh bhrèagha a bhiodh a’ faireachdainn gu math brìoghmhor. An àite sin, bha e uile air a chur ri chèile: baga plastaig, roghainn aig a’ mhionaid mu dheireadh, agus cnòthan ginger gus mo chumail bho bhith tinn sa chàr. Bha mi a’ smaoineachadh gum biodh mo 20an mu dheidhinn pògadh dhaoine ceàrr ann am bàraichean Los Angeles, chan e leughadh phàipearan-bog air leabaidh ospadail fhad ‘s a bha a’ chòigeamh obair-lannsa eanchainn aig mo mhàthair. Bha mo charaidean air falbh aig a’ cholaiste, a’ deasbad sororities agus semeastaran thall thairis; bha mise ag ionnsachadh seata sgilean gu tur eadar-dhealaichte. Aig 21, fhuair mi a-mach gun robh glioblastoma aig mo mhàthair, aillse eanchainn marbhtach. Cha b’ fhada gus an robh mi ann an leabharlann lagha Bakersfield, a’ googlaidh mar a dh’fhàsainn nam neach-dìon laghail do mo bhràthair 16-bliadhna, agus a’ faighinn a-mach gum b’ urrainn don aon seun a chleachd mi gus bòrd fhaighinn aig Nobu seòmar nas fheàrr fhaighinn dha mo mhàthair aig ospadal Cedars-Sinai. Chrìochnaich i anns an t-seòmar far an do chaochail Elizabeth Taylor beagan mhìosan roimhe, mion-fhiosrachadh a bha i a’ còrdadh ri innse dha a caraidean.

Nuair nach urrainn dhut pàigheadh, bidh thu a’ caoidh gu mì-laghail. Chan eil cuimhne mhòr agam bhon mhìos mu dheireadh sin de a beatha. Tha cuimhne agam sa mhòr-chuid dìreach air an t-salachar a chaidh mi às a sùilean fhad ‘s a bha i a’ socrachadh a-steach don chadal mu dheireadh aice. Thuirt banaltram an ospadail dachaigh ri mo bhràthair agus rium “cead” a thoirt dha ar màthair leigeil às. Bha a corp lag fhathast a’ sabaid, agus bha a’ bhanaltram den bheachd gu robh i a’ cumail oirnn. Mar sin tro ar sròn is ar deòir, thuirt sinn rithe falbh. Ach gu dìomhair, anns a h-uile anail a bha na stad, bha mi an dòchas nach falbhadh i. Chaochail i taobh a-staigh ochd mìosan bhon chiad bheachdachadh aice. Bha i 44 bliadhna a dh’aois. Nuair a ràinig na paramedics, dh’fhàg mi an seòmar. Bhiodh siota geal thairis air a corp ga dhèanamh deireannach ann an dòigh nach robh mi deiseil airson fhathast. Mu dheireadh, ann am meadhan gach rud eile, b’ fheudar dhomh faighinn a-mach dè a dhèanainn le a corp. An uairsin bha a’ phrìs ann. Cosgaidh tiodhlacadh àbhaisteach le sealladh is adhlacadh anns na SA $8,300. Eadhon cremation a-nis a’ cosg barrachd na $2,200 – suim do-chreidsinneach dhomh aig an àm. Bha mi nam àrd-fhear-adhair ann am feachd adhair na SA, a’ dèanamh mu $2,200 sa mhìos. Nuair nach urrainn dhut pàigheadh, bidh thu a’ caoidh gu mì-laghail – mar a rinn mise.

Bha mo mhàthair air iarraidh a bhith air a cremation. Leis gu robh mi fhìn agus mo theaghlach a’ “roinn” a fuigheall, bha feum againn air dòigh gus a roinn am measg grunn dhaoine: mise, mo bhràthair agus mo bhan-phàrant. B’ e am roghainn as saoire a thairg an taigh-tiodhlacaidh bogsa plastaig maroon. Cheannaich mi aon, thug mi dhachaigh i, agus roinn sinn ann am bagaichean plastaig i. Nas fhaide air adhart, thug mo bhan-phàrant gu bùth mi agus chuidich i mi le bhith a’ taghadh bhogsaichean beaga fiodha dhuinn uile. Rudan beaga fiodha snaighte, na b’ fheàrr na na thairg an taigh-tiodhlacaidh – agus na b’ saoire. Bha e coltach ri càradh. Cha do dh’obraich e gu tur nas motha. Bha fuaigheal a’ bhogsa, agus bha mo mhàthair a’ sìor dhol a-mach tro na sgàinidhean, còmhdach tana dhith a’ nochdadh air sgeilpichean is dressers agus am broinn drathairean. Nuair a thàinig an t-àm airson draibheadh gu Yosemite, chuir mi air ais ann am baga plastaig i. Is e aon rud nach robh fios agam gum feum fuigheall daonna a sgapadh ann am pàirc nàiseanta cead cleachdaidh sònraichte. Tha sin follaiseach a-nis, ach nuair a tha thu a’ caoidh, tha leughadh clò-bhualadh sam bith na ghnìomh mòr.

Cha robh gnìomhachas a’ bhàis an-còmhnaidh cho trom. Ron chogadh catharra, chaochail a’ mhòr-chuid de dh’Ameireaganaich aig an taigh agus bha an teaghlaichean fhèin gan ullachadh airson adhlacadh. Cha do dh’fhàs embalming farsaing ach às dèidh a’ chogaidh, nuair a chruthaich bàsan blàir margaidh mhòr airson cuirp a ghleidheadh fada gu leòr airson an cur gu tuath. B’ e na lean sin traidisean a’ toirt slighe do mhodail gnìomhachais: an taigh-tiodhlacaidh, an t-embalmer proifeiseanta, an stiùiriche ceadaichte, a’ chiste seulaichte, an cladh le faiche air a sgeadachadh. Is e aon fheart a tha a’ putadh a’ ghnìomhachais gu prìsean nas àirde co-dhlùthachadh. Thar an dà fhichead bliadhna mu dheireadh, tha conglomerates mòra cùraim-bàis air taighean-tiodhlacaidh neo-eisimeileach a ghabhail thairis, a’ faighinn cumhachd prìsean gu leòr ann an cuid de mhargaidhean gus gnìomh antitrust feadarail a bhrosnachadh. Rud a bha uaireigin na ghnìomhachas teaghlaich tha e a’ sìor fhàs na fho-bhuidheann.

Cha do thachair dad de seo le tubaist, agus chan e – mar a tha an gnìomhachas ag ràdh uaireannan – freagairt do na tha teaghlaichean ag iarraidh. Thuirt Justin Crowe, stèidheadair Parting Stone, companaidh ann an Santa Fe a bhios