'It's OK to love somebody when they're not perfect': how John Cena conquered Hollywood โ€“ and why he refuses to abandon Vince McMahon

'It's OK to love somebody when they're not perfect': how John Cena conquered Hollywood โ€“ and why he refuses to abandon Vince McMahon

I have to admit, I was nervous about meeting John Cena. The WWE wrestler turned actor has built an impressive Hollywood career playing idiots โ€“ capable idiots with real heart, but dimwits all the same. Still, Cena is clearly no fool; fools don’t rise from humble beginnings to become their generation’s answer to Hulk Hogan or The Rock. Would the Cena on my computer screen be the real one? Or something closer to the comic-book characters he plays so well: naive, silly, and fond of deliberate misunderstandings?It’s immediately clear this is no manchild. Perfectly punctual, he greets me with a grand formality befitting a man who made his film debut as the title character in The Marine. Within a minute, he volunteers, unprompted, that “a core value of mine is respect.” Cena, 49, is speaking to me on behalf of Matchbox: The Movie, a film spin-off of the Mattel toy car brand for Apple TV. For 45 minutes, he is generous, funny, complimentary, and elusive without ever being evasive. It’s genuinely radical for a man built like a chest freezer โ€“ having only recently retired from wrestling after 26 years โ€“ to be so relaxed about being ridiculous. In an age of such joyless online strongmen as Trump, Musk, and Andrew Tate, his buff charm is welcome.John Cena is a company man. The word “loyalty” comes up often, about everything from his friends back home to wrestling to the US itself. Admirable, no doubt. But Cena’s loyalty has drawn him into some uncomfortable positions, and for 20 minutes our good-natured chat about reliability, discipline, and what it means to owe everything to something bigger than yourself has set us on a collision course with one of the most disgraced figures in modern entertainment.View image in fullscreenCar trouble โ€ฆ John Cena in Matchbox: The Movie. Photograph: Jasin BolandIn January 2024, Vince McMahon, the all-powerful chairman and CEO of WWE, resigned from the organisation and its parent company TKO Group Holdings following a slew of sexual assault allegations and pending lawsuits that made his position in the company he’d spent his life building untenable. The final straw was a suit filed by a former WWE employee, Janel Grant, alleging that McMahon sexually assaulted her and pressed her into sexual acts during her time at the company, sent explicit images of her with other men without her consent, and passed her to others โ€“ in one instance, the filing says, to help secure a wrestler the company hoped to sign. McMahon denies all the allegations, and in June, the litigation between him, the WWE, and Grant was transferred voluntarily by all parties from federal court into confidential private arbitration.McMahon was a mentor to Cena, and as well as sponsoring his career, provided him a second family amid the travelling circus of 00s wrestling. “I have no guilt nor shame about my friendship and my relationship with Vince McMahon,” he says, swiftly followed by “you’re obviously going to put this in [your] article.” He’s right, of course. What is strange isn’t that he foresaw this line of questioning โ€“ it’s that Cena took such an unequivocal stance in the face of something so potentially damaging. He is audibly proud of the association, revelling in the idea that he’s abiding by his principles in the face of what he calls “the storm.” “It’s OK to love somebody when they’re not perfect,” he says.Cena was born in West Newbury, Massachusetts, in 1977, one of five boys in a household that watched every dollar. His grandma and grandpa lived in an adjoining house. “There was a lot of ‘How are we going to pay the bills, how are we going to keep the lights on?'” Cena says. He worshipped the movie action men of the era โ€“ Schwarzenegger, Stallone, Willis โ€“ but he also loved hip-hop, which in suburban Massachusetts made him a target for bullies. Bodybuilding was the answer, and itIt also works as an origin story โ€“ the boy bullied for dressing like a white rapper, who grew up to become an icon for the next generation of suburban youth. Still, when I bring it up, Cena is quick to correct the emphasis: the bullying wasn’t the point; his response to it was. “I didn’t treat hostility with hostility,” he says. “I got bullied for the way that I dressed, so I dressed more outlandishly.” The muscle was a visible deterrent. “I’ll just project a physical sense of: Man, I don’t want to press my luck with that guy,” he says. After college, he drove to California in 1999 with about $500 to follow Schwarzenegger’s playbook to bodybuilding glory. He worked on the shop floor at Gold’s Gym in Venice Beach for six dollars an hour, and for a stretch, slept in the back of his 1991 Lincoln. A wrestler who worked out at Gold’s steered him towards the industry and in 2000 he made his debut in WWF (now WWE) as The Prototype, a robotic character whose deliberate speech was a clear nod to his idol Arnie. He was paid $250 a week “which meant I spiralled into debt”. To Cena’s credit he understood that the short-term loss had the potential to lead to long-term gain. “I’ve been pretty astute at understanding when luck arrives,” he says. View image in fullscreen Lord of the ring โ€ฆ John Cena at a WWE event in Toronto in 2024. Photograph: WWE/Getty Images What followed was a 24-year stint as a WWE superstar, a period Cena describes without irony as “service”. “You can’t fake that,” he says. “If you’re in the business of bullshit, somebody’s going to see through it.” He stumbled on a character that stuck: a jersey-wearing, battle-rapping white kid from Massachusetts, who literally went by the name John Cena. Despite some distrust from fans โ€“ over his general clean-living, wholesome persona โ€“ and fellow wrestlers who initially ostracised him for not engaging in the hard-boozing that was par for the course, the gimmick worked. In fact it was so successful that it led to the slightly odd ongoing situation where Cena doesn’t own his own name. “John Cena is who I am as a human being,” he says, “and there is a company โ€“ WWE/TKO โ€“ that has invested hundreds of millions of dollars in the intellectual property of the character John Cena. And rightfully so; they have earned their share of ownership of that.” In Cena’s words he read and understood the agreement and he thought it was fair. However, the lingering sense that a career at the top of WWE requires a deal with the devil prevails (Dwayne Johnson only got his own moniker, “The Rock”, back in 2024, and now sits on the board of TKO). But Cena explicitly rejects the idea that he has had to make sacrifices along the way. “I prefer to use the word choice โ€ฆ When we say yes to something, we say no to everything else.” In effect, he gave up his name for the rare chance to live his dream. And for more than a decade he did. Cena was beloved throughout the 2000s and early 2010s primarily as an avatar for a certain brand of flag-waving, white masculinity that was firmly in tune with the climate of post-9/11 America but is maybe less so now. Donald Trump was a recurring presence in WWE during this period, memorably shaving McMahon’s head after besting him at WrestleMania and even “buying” flagship brand Raw as part of the pair’s staged rivalry. The DNA of today’s toxic masculinity can be seen in the WWE’s Attitude era: Muslim performers were painted as would-be terrorists; female wrestlers, known as “divas”, were sexualised, fighting in “bra and panties” matches; and scandals around steroid abuse and traumatic head injuries were raised in lawsuits. double quotation mark Rather than trying to take the reins of a movement or be the poster child for something, I’m just trying to be me The miracle of Cena’s career is that the man who spent a dFor a decade, he was the straight-faced embodiment of American masculinityโ€”and it turned out he was equally good at mocking it. After a few underwhelming action and sports roles, Judd Apatow cast him against type in the 2015 romcom Trainwreck, where he played a musclebound hunk whose attempts to be threatening just sound homoerotic. Then, as the pumped-up Peacemakerโ€”first in the superhero movie The Suicide Squad (2021), then in the comedy spin-off series named after the characterโ€”Cena struck a balance between serious man and silly goose that would be hard to pull off without a healthy dose of self-awareness. That quality was on full display in his small but charming turn as a merman in Barbie, a commitment to the bit that was all the more admirable given his agents tried to talk him out of the role.

Matchbox, his latest film, is a vague attempt to recapture Barbie’s magic in the more contained format of a traditional action comedy. Cena admits he felt relieved when he read the script and found the cars were “so far down the list of things they were doing with the IP.” He plays Sean, an undercover operative whose entire life is a performance. When I wonder aloud whether the part hits close to home, he eagerly connects the dots himself: “How does someone who thinks they’re always being watched act in a public place? That I got a little bit of familiarity with.”

Cena’s onscreen persona is an intriguing model of masculinity: the strongman remade as softie. What’s more, his wall-to-wall presence in the childhoods of millennial men makes him a far more credible advocate of positive manhood than a Joe Rogan or a Jordan Peterson. But he is reluctant to take on that mantle. “Rather than trying to take the reins of a movement or be the poster child for something, I’m just trying to be me,” he says, before offering his own diagnosis of why so many people are in the business of selling a personal vision of masculinity. “The appetite for a certain kind of manhood is just supply and demand,” he says. To the people clamouring for it, “my advice would be: go get it.”

Perhaps Cena’s lack of desire to be cast in that role is emblematic of why it would suit him. The system, he says, “is real fragile โ€ฆ if I say I’m going to be the showcase of masculinity and the supply-and-demand chain pivots in five minutes, I’m shit out of luck.” He is keen to underscore how much he “loves the United States and admires its military force that makes the vow to, under the ultimate sacrifice, protect that piece of paper that says ‘We the People’. To me, that’s extremely heroic.”

Cena’s own heroism came into question in 2021 when, while promoting Fast & Furious 9, he referred to Taiwan as “a country.” The Chinese audience took offence, and he filmed a contrite apology in Mandarin, a language he had been learning for six years in an attempt to grow the WWE’s presence in China. In the US, the grovelling video read less as an apology than a capitulation to the weight of China’s economic might. The fan backlash was so intense that he told James Gunn he’d understand if he had to be fired from Peacemaker. He takes full responsibility for the episode. “Just because you know the language doesn’t mean you know the culture,” he says, admitting, “I got way too overconfident. I thought I was the smartest guy in the room.” Part of what frightened him was the very real possibility of “the termination of employment that I love.” The same reflex toStaying loyal to the brand has taken him to countless events in Saudi Arabia without complaint. “WWE speaks a universal language of diplomacy,” he says. “So when you ask, ‘Hey, the thing you’re part of sometimes gets criticised for what it does as an organisation โ€“ is that hard?’ Of course it is, especially when you believe in that organisation.”

For a man who prides himself on saying yes, it’s telling what he has repeatedly turned down. Cena doesn’t want children, and his reasoning fits his sense of discipline: they would demand too much of him. From 2002 to 2015, he was home “about 15 days a year, and even now it’s maybe 70,” he says. “If I said yes to children, I’d have to say no to everything else.” His engagement to fellow wrestler Nikki Bella โ€“ his co-star on the reality show Total Bellas โ€“ ended in 2018, largely over whether to have kids. Cena, who’d had a vasectomy, offered to reverse it, but the relationship ended soon after.

“I really enjoy my life,” he says. Cena has granted more than 650 Make-a-Wish wishes, more than anyone else alive. He sees his ability to do so much for the charity as directly tied to not having children. “If I had a family of my own, I wouldn’t have those 650 moments โ€ฆ I’m flying with just my partner on this one.” Cena married Shay Shariatzadeh, an Iranian Canadian tech product manager, in 2020, after they met in Vancouver while he was filming. They’d only been together a year, but he’s said he would have proposed after three months. “I have a loving connection that people don’t see,” he says. “I don’t need the world to know me completely as a person.”

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He remains under contract with WWE as a “brand ambassador”, a sign of his gratitude to the company, but also an unfinished transition back to ordinary life. Next, he’ll star in One Attempt Remaining, a comedy from Kay Cannon (director of Blockers and writer-producer of the Pitch Perfect series). He plays one half of a divorced couple forced to team up with his ex to track down the lost password to a crypto account worth millions. While Dwayne Johnson has become a brand bigger than his wrestling fame, you get the feeling Cena will never fully escape his WWE persona โ€“ his screen roles echoing the exaggerated version of himself he’s been playing since 2002.

Maybe that’s what it means to be a company man: not an empty suit or a servile mouthpiece, but someone so completely committed to the brand that it’s simply who he is. Present, punctual, polite and businesslike. The job is done, and it’s back to the gym.

Matchbox: The Movie premieres on Apple TV on 9 October.

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Beginner Questions

Q What is this article about
A It explains how wrestler John Cena became a successful Hollywood actor and why he stays loyal to Vince McMahon the man who runs WWE

Q Who is John Cena
A He is a famous professional wrestler who has become a major movie star He is known for his Never Give Up attitude

Q Who is Vince McMahon
A He is the chairman of WWE the biggest wrestling company in the world He hired Cena and made him a star

Q Why is it surprising that Cena is a successful actor
A Many wrestlers try to become actors but fail Cena has beaten the odds and become a real Hollywood star

Q What does Its OK to love somebody when theyre not perfect mean here
A It means you can still be loyal to a person even if they have flaws or make mistakes Cena supports McMahon despite any controversy

Intermediate Questions

Q How did John Cena conquer Hollywood
A He started with small roles worked very hard and showed he could be funny and charming He took roles in comedies like Trainwreck and action movies like Fast Furious He also learned to make fun of himself which made people like him

Q What are some of Cenas biggest movies
A Trainwreck Blockers Bumblebee Fast Furious 9 The Suicide Squad and Peacemaker

Q Why does Cena refuse to abandon Vince McMahon
A Cena believes in loyalty McMahon gave him his big break and made him a millionaire Cena feels he owes McMahon everything and wont turn his back on him

Q What are the benefits of Cenas loyalty
A It shows he is a man of his word It keeps his relationship with WWE strong It also gives him a safe home base while he acts in movies

Q What are the common problems with this kind of loyalty