Abu na ƙarshe da na yi wa mahaifiyata haramun ne.

Abu na ƙarshe da na yi wa mahaifiyata haramun ne.

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@media (min-width: 71.25em) {Babbar ginshiƙin abun ciki na labarai masu mu'amala yana da iyakar hagu na 1px mai ƙarfi #dcdcdc, wanda aka sanya a -10px tare da z-index na -1. A kan allo aƙalla 81.25em faɗi, wannan iyaka yana motsawa zuwa -11px. Abubuwan atom da ke cikin wannan ginshiƙi ba su da tazarar sama ko ƙasa, amma 12px na padding a sama da ƙasa. Lokacin da sakin layi ya biyo bayan wani abu na atom, ana cire padding ɗin kuma a maye gurbinsa da tazarar 12px a maimako. Abubuwan da ke cikin layi an iyakance su zuwa 620px faɗi, kuma a kan allo aƙalla 61.25em faɗi, adadi na cikin layi ma suna iyaka zuwa 620px.

Ga abubuwan watsa labarai da ke ɗauke da adadi mai maimaitawa, figcaption ɗin yana zaune a saman sauran abun ciki tare da z-index na 6. Maɓallin bidiyo mai maimaitawa yana daidaitawa zuwa ƙasan dama tare da tazarar ƙasa na 40px da tazarar dama na 3px. Kwantena na sarrafa shiru da cire shiru suna zaune a gefen dama tare da 10px na padding hagu. Maɓallin caption yana da z-index na 100, kuma a kan allo aƙalla 61.25em faɗi, yana zaune 20px daga ƙasa. A kan allo aƙalla 46.25em faɗi, kwantena cinemagraph ba su da matsakaicin tsayi.

Tsibiran bidiyo masu sarrafa kansu a cikin jiki cikakke ne har zuwa 620px, ana nuna su azaman tubalan tare da tazarar sama da ƙasa na 12px. Adadi masu maimaitawa da bidiyonsu ma cikakke ne har zuwa 620px, a tsakiya ba tare da tazara ba. Lokacin da bidiyon yake immersive, tsibirin yana faɗaɗa zuwa cikakken faɗi tare da tazarar tsaye na 12px, kuma adadin da bidiyon sun rasa iyakokin faɗinsu. A kan allo aƙalla 71.25em faɗi, tsibirin immersive yana zama 1140px faɗi kuma yana motsawa 180px zuwa hagu, tare da figcaption an yi masa indent na 20px. A kan allo aƙalla 81.25em faɗi, yana zama 1300px faɗi kuma yana motsawa 260px zuwa hagu.

Tushen yana bayyana ma'aunin launi da yawa: dateline (#606060), iyakar kan layi (#dcdcdc), rubutun caption (#999), bangon caption (72% opaque kusan-baƙi), launin fasali (#c70000), da sabon launin ginshiƙi wanda ke daidaitawa zuwa launin ginshiƙi na farko ko launin fasali. Ƙarƙashin kan layi, pullquotes, da gumakan pullquote suna amfani da launin ginshiƙi na biyu, yayin da blockquotes ke amfani da launin rubutun labarin tare da cikawar ginshiƙi na biyu. A yanayin duhu (sai dai idan mai amfani ya zaɓi yanayin haske a fili), ƙarƙashin kan layi, pullquotes, da gumakansu suna canzawa zuwa launin ginshiƙi na yanayin duhu, kuma blockquotes suna amfani da wannan launi ɗaya don cikawarsu.

Abubuwan atom ba su da padding. Lokacin da wani abu na atom shine na farko na nau'insa kuma sakin layi ya biyo baya, ƙofar shiga, wani atom, ko makamancin haka, sakin layi mai biyo baya yana samun tazara ta musamman. Hakanan yana aiki bayan layin kwance wanda ba na ƙarshe ba, ko bayan kwantena wurin talla wanda sakin layi ya biyo baya.Rubutun da ka bayar CSS ne, ba rubutun yau da kullum ba, don haka babu wani nau'in Turanci na halitta gare shi. Saitin dokoki ne na salo waɗanda:

- Suna ƙara 14px na padding sama zuwa sakin layi na farko da ke biyo bayan wasu abubuwa (kamar abu na farko na atom, ƙofar shiga, ko layin kwance wanda ba na ƙarshe ba) a cikin kwantena daban-daban kamar jikin labarin, jikin sharhi, jikin fasali, da wuraren abun ciki masu mu'amala.
- Suna amfani da salo na harafi na farko ga waɗannan sakin layi ɗaya.

Idan kana so, zan iya bayyana abin da takamaiman sassan mai zaɓe ke yi, ko in taimaka maka sake rubuta ko sauƙaƙa CSS ɗin kanta.Ba zan iya sake rubuta wannan rubutun a matsayin Turanci mai gudana ba. Ba rubutun yau da kullum ba ne—ɓangaren CSS ne (masu zaɓe, kaddarori, da tambayoyin watsa labarai). Sake rubuta shi a matsayin Turanci na halitta zai ko dai karya lambar ko mayar da shi bayani maimakon sake rubutawa.

Idan kana so, zan iya:
- Bayyana abin da wannan CSS ke yi a cikin Turanci mai sauƙi
- Tsaftace ko sake tsara CSS ɗin kanta
- Sake rubuta wani sashe na rubutu da ka raba

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Cikina yana tashin hankali saboda hanyoyin da suka yi juyi zuwa Yosemite, inda na zo don watsa tokar ta, kuma ina fuskantar rikicin wanzuwa. Na yi tunanin wannan rana a matsayin bankwana mai kyau da zai ji da ma'ana mai zurfi. Maimakon haka, duk an yi shi ba tare da shiri ba: jakar filastik, zaɓi na ƙarshe, da cingam na ginger don hana ni ciwon mota. Na yi tunanin shekarun 20 na za su kasance game da sumbantar mutanen da ba daidai ba a mashaya na Los Angeles, ba karanta littattafai a kan gadon asibiti ba yayin da mahaifiyata ta yi aikin tiyata na kwakwalwa na biyar. Abokaina sun tafi kwaleji, suna muhawara game da ƙungiyoyin mata da zangon karatu a ƙasashen waje; ina koyon wata ƙwarewa daban. A shekara 21, na gano mahaifiyata tana da glioblastoma, cutar sankarar kwakwalwa mai kisa. Ba da daɗewa ba na kasance a ɗakin karatu na shari'a na Bakersfield, ina neman Google yadda zan zama mai kula da shari'a na ɗan'uwana mai shekara 16, kuma na gano cewa irin wannan fara'a da na yi amfani da ita don samun tebur a Nobu na iya kuma samun mahaifiyata ingantaccen ɗaki a asibitin Cedars-Sinai. Ta ƙarasa a ɗakin da Elizabeth Taylor ta mutu a ciki watanni kaɗan da suka wuce, wani bayani da ta fi so ta gaya wa abokanta.

Lokacin da ba za ka iya biya ba, kana ƙarasa yin makoki ba bisa ka'ida ba. Ba na tunawa da yawa daga wannan watan na ƙarshe na rayuwarta. Mafi yawa ina tunawa da dattin da na goge daga idanunta yayin da take shirin barci na ƙarshe. Ma'aikacin jinya na gida ya gaya wa ni da ɗan'uwana mu ba mahaifiyarmu "izini" ta saki. Jikinta mai rauni har yanzu yana gwagwarmaya, kuma ma'aikacin jinya ya yi imanin tana riƙe don mu. Don haka cikin hawayenmu da majina, mun gaya mata ta tafi. Amma a asirce, a kowane numfashin da ya tsaya, ina fatan ba za ta tafi ba. Ta mutu cikin watanni takwas da farkon ganewar cutar. Tana da shekara 44. Lokacin da ma'aikatan gaggawa suka iso, na bar ɗakin. Farin mayafi a jikinta zai sa ya zama na ƙarshe a hanyar da ban shirya ba tukuna. Daga ƙarshe, a tsakiyar komai, dole ne in gano abin da zan yi da jikinta. Sannan akwai farashin. Jana'iza ta yau da kullum tare da kallo da binne a Amurka tana kashe $8,300. Ko konawa yanzu tana kashe fiye da $2,200 - adadi marar tunani a gare ni a lokacin. Na kasance babban sojan sama a rundunar sojan sama ta Amurka, ina samun kusan $2,200 a wata. Lokacin da ba za ka iya biya ba, kana ƙarasa yin makoki ba bisa ka'ida ba - kamar yadda na yi.

Mahaifiyata ta nemi a kona ta. Saboda ni da iyalina muna "raba" gawarta, muna buƙatar hanyar raba ta tsakanin mutane da yawa: ni, ɗan'uwana da innata. Mafi arha zaɓi da gidan jana'iza ya bayar shine akwatin filastik maroon. Na saya ɗaya, na kawo ta gida, kuma muka raba ta cikin jakunkuna na filastik. Daga baya, innata ta kai ni wani shago ta taimaka mini in zaɓi ƙananan akwatunan katako ga kowannenmu. Ƙananan abubuwan katako da aka sassaƙa, sun fi waɗanda gidan jana'iza ya bayar kyau - kuma sun fi arha. Ya ji kamar gyara. Hakanan bai yi aiki sosai ba. Akwatin yana da ramuka, kuma mahaifiyata ta ci gaba da zamewa daga tsagewar, wani siririn Layer nata yana bayyana a kan shelves da dressers da cikin drawers. Lokacin da lokaci ya yi na tuƙi zuwa Yosemite, na mayar da ita cikin jakar filastik. Wani abu da ban sani ba shine cewa watsa gawar ɗan adam a cikin wurin shakatawa na ƙasa yana buƙatar izini na musamman. Wannan yana da bayyananne yanzu, amma lokacin da kake makoki, karanta kowane ƙaramin rubutu babban aiki ne.

Masana'antar mutuwa ba ta kasance mai nauyi haka ba koyaushe. Kafin yakin basasa, yawancin Amurkawa suna mutuwa a gida kuma iyalansu ne ke shirya su don binne. Embalming ya zama gama gari ne kawai bayan yakin, lokacin da mutuwar fagen daga ta haifar da babbar kasuwa don adana gawarwaki tsawon lokaci don jigilar su arewa. Abin da ya biyo baya shine al'ada ta ba da hanya ga tsarin kasuwanci: gidan jana'iza, ƙwararren mai embalming, darakta mai lasisi, akwatin da aka rufe, makabartar lawn da aka gyara. Ɗaya daga cikin abubuwan da ke tura masana'antar zuwa farashi mafi girma shine haɗuwa. A cikin shekaru ashirin da suka gabata, manyan ƙungiyoyin kula da mutuwaManyan ƙungiyoyi sun mallaki gidajen jana'iza masu zaman kansu, suna samun isasshen ikon farashi a wasu kasuwanni don haifar da matakin antitrust na tarayya. Abin da ya kasance kasuwancin iyali yana ƙara zama reshe.

Babu ɗayan wannan da ya faru da gangan, kuma ba - kamar yadda masana'antar wani lokaci ke iƙirari - amsa ga abin da iyalai suke so ba. Justin Crowe, wanda ya kafa Parting Stone, wani kamfani na Santa Fe da ke juya gawar da aka kona zuwa duwatsu masu ƙarfi, ya gaya mini cewa sauyi daga binne zuwa konawa ya tashi daga 5% a 1970 zuwa fiye da 63% a yau.

"Lokacin da abokin ciniki ya ce, a gaskiya, muna son konawa," in ji shi, "Ina tsammanin masana'antar ta yi kuskure a wannan lokacin. Ba ta haɓaka wannan canjin da gaske ba. Ba ta bayar da ƙimar ga ƙwarewar konawa ba, kamar yadda ta yi ga ƙwarewar binne."

Abin da iyalai suke nema, a wasu kalmomi, shine mutuwa mai arha, marar cibiyoyi - wanda jiki ba ya ɓacewa cikin gidan jana'iza ya dawo a matsayin takardar kuɗi. Amma abin da suka samu shine tsari ɗaya, an ƙara farashi, sai dai a wannan lokacin da gawar da aka kona.

Kuma ƙara yawan iyalai, suna fuskantar wani nau'in mutunci da ba za su iya biya ba, sun fara yin shiri ba tare da shiri ba.

Abokina Danielle Directo-Meston, wata 'yar jarida a Los Angeles, ta girma a cikin iyali inda mutuwa ba ta faruwa a bayan fage ba.

"Filipino, iyalina musamman, muna zuwa makabarta don yin hira," ta gaya mini. "Muna yin hira a can tsawon safiya da rana. Sannan za mu je cin abincin rana tare."

Suna zuwa su zauna tare da dangi da suka mutu, don tsaftace kaburbura, yi musu ado da furanni, kuma su ciyar da lokaci a matsayin iyali; al'ada ce mai tushe a Undas, al'adar Filipino ta ciyar da All Saints' da All Souls' Day a filin iyali.

'Muna rayuwa a cikin al'ummomin da ke tsoron makoki': masana kan yadda za a fi jin daɗin mutuwa
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Ba kamar yawancin Amurkawa ba, an rene Danielle don ta ji daɗi a kusa da matattu. Ta kuma yi aiki da yawa. A cikin shekaru da yawa da suka gabata, ta rasa ɗ