'Tha 10 mionaidean agad airson co-dhùnadh a dhèanamh': a' freagairt a' ghairm a dh'atharraicheas beatha airson a bhith nad neach-cùraim chàirdean

'Tha 10 mionaidean agad airson co-dhùnadh a dhèanamh': a' freagairt a' ghairm a dh'atharraicheas beatha airson a bhith nad neach-cùraim chàirdean

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Taobh a-staigh a' cholbh seo, chan eil iomall àrd no ìosal aig eileamaidean atom ach gheibh iad 12px de phadadh air an dà chuid àrd is ìosal. Nuair a thèid paragraf a leantainn le eileamaid atom, thèid am padadh a thoirt air falbh agus thèid iomall 12px a chur na àite.

Tha eileamaidean in-loidhne air an cuingealachadh aig leud as àirde de 620px. Air sgrionaichean co-dhiù 61.25em de leud, bidh figearan in-loidhne cuideachd a' dol suas gu 620px.

Airson eileamaidean meadhan anns a bheil figear lùbach, bidh am figcaption na shuidhe aig z-index 6 mura h-eil e falaichte. Bidh am putan lùb bhidio a' co-thaobhadh ris an oisean deas ìosal le iomall ìosal de 40px agus iomall deas de 3px. Tha na soithichean smachd mute agus unmute air an suidheachadh aig an oir dheas le 10px de phadadh clì. Bidh am putan fo-thiotal na shuidhe aig z-index 100, agus air sgrionaichean co-dhiù 61.25em de leud, bidh e a' gluasad suas 20px bhon bhonn.

Air sgrionaichean co-dhiù 46.25em de leud, chan eil àirde as àirde aig soithichean cinemagraph.

Tha eileanan bhidio fèin-aoigheachd sa bhodhaig làn-leud, air an cuingealachadh aig 620px, agus air an taisbeanadh mar bhlocaichean le iomall àrd is ìosal de 12px. Tha na figearan lùbach agus na bhideothan aca cuideachd làn-leud, fèin-àirde, air an cuingealachadh aig 620px, agus air an cuir sa mheadhan. Nuair a tha am bhidio bogaidh, bidh an t-eilean a' leudachadh gu làn-leud le iomall dìreach de 12px, agus bidh am figear agus am bhidio a' call an cuingealachadh leud agus an cuir sa mheadhan. Air sgrionaichean co-dhiù 71.25em de leud, bidh an t-eilean bogaidh 1140px de leud agus a' gluasad clì 180px, le figcaptions air an comharrachadh 20px. Air sgrionaichean co-dhiù 81.25em de leud, bidh e a' leudachadh gu 1300px agus a' gluasad clì 260px.

Tha am freumh a' mìneachadh grunn fheartan gnàthaichte: dath dateline #606060, iomall cinn #dcdcdc, teacsa fo-thiotal #999, cùl-fhiosrachadh fo-thiotal hsla(0, 0%, 7%, .72), dath feart #c70000, agus dath colbh ùr a thuiteas air ais chun a' phrìomh cholbh no dath feart. Bidh teacsa fo-cheann, teacsa pullquote, agus ìomhaighean pullquote uile a' cleachdadh an dath colbh àrd-sgoile, fhad 's a bhios teacsa blockquote a' cleachdadh dath teacsa an artaigil. Bidh blockquotes a' faighinn dath lìonaidh bhon dàrna colbh.

Ann am modh dorcha (mura h-eil an sgeama dath air a shuidheachadh gu soilleir gu sònraichte), bidh teacsa fo-cheann, teacsa pullquote, agus ìomhaighean pullquote ag atharrachadh gu dath colbh modh dorcha, agus bidh blockquotes a' cleachdadh an aon dath sin airson an lìonadh.

Chan eil padadh aig eileamaidean atom taobh a-staigh a' phrìomh cholbh eadar-ghnìomhach. Nuair a tha eileamaid atom mar a' chiad fhear den t-seòrsa aice agus air a leantainn le paragraf, geata clàraidh a-steach, eileamaid atom eile, no rud coltach ris, gheibh am paragraf a leanas farsaingeachd shònraichte. Tha an aon rud a' buntainn ri riaghailtean còmhnard nach eil mu dheireadh, agus ri paragrafan a leanas sliotan sanasachd. Tha na riaghailtean sin cuideachd a' buntainn ri eileamaidean atom taobh a-staigh div bodhaig an artaigil.Tha an teacsa a thug thu seachad na chòd CSS, chan e rosg, mar sin chan eil Beurla nàdarra ann airson ath-sgrìobhadh. 'S e seata de luchd-taghaidh agus riaghailtean a th' ann a chuireas 14px de phadadh àrd ri paragrafan sònraichte agus a chuireas stoidhle ciad-litir an sàs ann an soithichean sònraichte.

Ma thogras tu, is urrainn dhomh mìneachadh dè a tha an CSS seo a' dèanamh ann am Beurla shìmplidh, no do chuideachadh ga shìmpleachadh no ath-dhealbhadh.Chan urrainn dhomh sin ath-sgrìobhadh mar Bheurla fileanta - is e còd CSS a th' ann, chan e rosg. Ma thogras tu, is urrainn dhomh mìneachadh dè a tha an CSS a' dèanamh ann am Beurla shìmplidh, no faodaidh tu an teacsa fìor a tha thu airson ath-sgrìobhadh a chur a-steach.Tha an còd CSS seo a' mìneachadh cruth freagairteach airson cinn artaigil, cinn-naidheachd, meata-dàta, agus teacsa standfirst. Bidh e a' cleachdadh CSS Grid gus na h-eileamaidean sin a chuir air dòigh thar diofar mheudan sgrion, le puingean briseadh aig 980px, 1140px, agus 1300px. Bidh an cruth ag atharrachadh structaran colbh is sreath, a' cur loidhnichean crìche ris, agus a' stoidhleachadh cheanglaichean le fo-loidhnichean. Bidh e cuideachd a' làimhseachadh eileamaidean figear agus a' dèanamh cinnteach gu bheil farsaingeachd agus co-thaobhadh ceart ann airson taisbeanadh glan, stoidhle iris..furniture-wrapper #standfirst:before, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=standfirst]:before { left: -0.5px; } } .furniture-wrapper .article-header .content__labels > div, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=title] .content__labels > div { padding-top: 2px; } .furniture-wrapper #headline h1, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=headline] h1, .furniture-wrapper .headline h1 { font-weight: 600; max-width: 620px; font-size: 32px; } @media (min-width: 71.25em) { .furniture-wrapper #headline h1, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=headline] h1, .furniture-wrapper .headline h1 { max-width: 540px; font-size: 50px; } } @media (min-width: 46.25em) { .furniture-wrapper .keyline-4, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=lines] { margin-right: 0; } } @media (min-width: 61.25em) { .furniture-wrapper .keyline-4, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=lines] { display: none; } } .furniture-wrapper .keyline-4 svg, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=lines] svg { stroke: var(--headerBorder); } @media (min-width: 46.25em) { .furniture-wrapper #meta, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=meta] { margin-right: 0; } } .furniture-wrapper #meta .meta__social, .furniture-wrapper #meta .meta__social ul li a span, .furniture-wrapper #meta .meta__comment, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=meta] .meta__social, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=meta] .meta__social ul li a span, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=meta] .meta__comment { border-color: var(--headerBorder); } .furniture-wrapper #meta .content__meta-container_dcr > div > gu-island, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=meta] .content__meta-container_dcr > div > gu-island { display: none; } .furniture-wrapper .standfirst, .furniture-wrapper #standfirst, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=standfirst] { margin-left: -10px; padding-left: 10px; position: relative; } @media (min-width: 46.25em) { .furniture-wrapper .standfirst, .furniture-wrapper #standfirst, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=standfirst] { padding-top: 2px; } } .furniture-wrapper .standfirst p, .furniture-wrapper #standfirst p, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=standfirst] p { font-weight: 400; font-size: 20px; padding-bottom: 14px; } .furniture-wrapper #main-media, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=media] { position: relative; margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 2px; grid-area: portrait; } .furniture-wrapper #main-media div div, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=media] div div { width: 100%; margin-inline: 0; } @media (min-width: 61.25em) { .furniture-wrapper #main-media, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=media] { margin-bottom: 0; } } @media (max-width: 46.24em) { .furniture-wrapper #main-media, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=media] { width: calc(100vw - var(--scrollbar-width, 0px)); margin-left: -10px; } } @media (max-width: 46.24em) and (min-width: 30em) { .furniture-wrapper #main-media, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=media] { margin-left: -20px; } } .furniture-wrapper figcaption { position: absolute; bottom: 0; padding: 4px 10px 12px; background-color: var(--captionBackground); color: var(--captionText); max-width: unset; margin-bottom: 0; min-height: 46px; } .furniture-wrapper figcaption span { color: var(--headerBorder); } .furniture-wrapper figcaption span svg { fill: var(--headerBorder); } .furniture-wrapper figcaption span:nth-of-type(1) { display: none; } .furniture-wrapper figcaption span:nth-of-type(2) { display: inline; max-width: 90%; } @media (min-width: 30em) { .furniture-wrapper figcaption { padding: 4px 20px 12px; } } .furniture-wrapper figcaption.hidden { opacity: 0; } .furniture-wrapper #caption-button { display: block; position: absolute; bottom: 10px; right: 8px; z-index: 30; background-color: var(--captionBackground); border: none; border-radius: 50%; padding: 6px 5px 5px; } .furniture-wrapper #caption-button svg { transform: scale(0.85); } @media (min-width: 30em) { .furniture-wrapper #caption-button { right: 10px; } } @media (min-width: 71.25em) { .content__main-column--interactive:before { top: -12px !important; height: calc(100% + 24px) !important; } } .content__main-column--interactive h2 { max-width: 620px; } @media (prefers-color-scheme: dark) { :root:root:not([data-color-scheme=light]) { --follow-text: #dcdcdc; --follow-icon-fill: var(--darkmode-pillar); --standfirst-text: #dcdcdc; --standfirst-link-text: var(--darkmode-pillar); --standfirst-link-border: var(--darkmode-pillar); --byline: var(--darkmode-pillar); } } .article .article__body h2, article.content--interactiTha cuimhne aig Clive air an latha a thàinig e gu bhith na neach-cùraim dàimh mar gum b' e an-dè a bh' ann. Cha robh rabhadh ann, cha robh ùine ann faighinn a-mach dè bha e a' dol a-steach air.

"Dh'fhalbh an t-oifigear sòisealta, dhùin an doras, agus bha Savannah na laighe an sin ann an cot giùlain, air a pasgadh ann am plaide phinc. Bha i a' coimhead cho socair is cho comhfhurtail, gun fhios aice idir dè bha dìreach air tachairt.

"Bha sàmhchair neònach san taigh. Bha e dìreach mise is i agus màileid bheag le cuid de rudan. Thòisich mi a' caoineadh. 'S e tidsear a th' annam, ach chan eil trèanadh thidsearan gad ullachadh airson a bhith a' coimhead às dèidh pàisde.

"Cha robh fios agam ciamar a dh'atharraicheas tu nappy. Cha robh pushchair no cot agam. Cha robh fios agam càite an cadaladh i. Cha robh dad agam."

Beagan uairean a thìde roimhe sin, bha Clive, ceannard bun-sgoile, air fòn fhaighinn aig an obair bho sheirbheisean chloinne. Bha e den bheachd gun robh e mu dheidhinn aon de na sgoilearan aige, ach bha e mu dheidhinn a nighean-bràthar, sia seachdainean a dh'aois. An gabhadh e, mar bhall teaghlaich, i fo chùram sealach?

Savannah agus Clive. 'Thuirt mi tha – agus dhèilig mi ris na builean an dèidh sin.' Dealbh: Saskia Albers/Portray Your Story

"Mar sin thuirt mi gu cas, 'Seadh, gun duilgheadas. Feumaidh mi beagan rudan a chuir air dòigh, mar sin thoir dhomh latha no dhà.' Thuirt iad, 'Chan eil, feumaidh i tighinn thugad an-diugh. Feumaidh sinn a leigeil às aig ceithir uairean.'

"Dh'fhaighnich mi, 'Uill, dè thachras mura can mi tha an-diugh?' Thuirt iad gum biodh aca ri 'roghainnean eile' a lorg. Mar sin thòisich mi a' faighinn clisgeadh: dè ma thèid i gu cùram-altraim no ma thèid a h-uchd-mhacachd? Mar sin thuirt mi tha – agus dhèilig mi ris na builean an dèidh sin."

"Chaidh mi dhachaigh agus shuidh mi an sin a' feitheamh. Bha e neònach oir chan eil mi a' smaoineachadh gun robh mi a-riamh dhachaigh aig 3:30f air latha sgoile roimhe. An uair sin ràinig cùram sòisealta agus leig iad às i. Agus b' e sin e.

"Cha robh mi a-riamh air fòcas a chuir ach air mo chùrsa-beatha. Bha mi an-còmhnaidh air mo stiùireadh le cùrsa-beatha. An uair sin chaidh pàisde a phutadh orm nach robh mi a-riamh an dùil ris."

Tha Clive, a bha 32 an uair sin, a-nis ag aideachadh gu robh e naive mu bhuilean a' cho-dhùnaidh a dh'atharraich a bheatha. Naoi bliadhna an dèidh sin, leis an fhuireach "sealach" air fàs maireannach, tha "Uncle Clive" na neach-dìon laghail aig Savannah, ged a tha i ann an conaltradh cunbhalach le a pàrantan breith. Tha e measail oirre, agus 's e sgeulachd shoirbheachail dàimh a th' anns an fhear aca. Tha a' phlaide phinc fhathast aice. Ach chan eil an t-slighe, tha e ag aideachadh, ged a tha i aoibhneach is sàsail, air a bhith rèidh an-còmhnaidh.

Tha Clive a-nis na neach-dìon laghail aig Savannah, agus tha iad air a bhith a' fuireach còmhla naoi bliadhna. Dealbh: Saskia Albers/Portray Your Story

"Dhèanainn a-rithist e. 'S e an rud as fheàrr a dh'fhaodadh a bhith air tachairt dha mo nighean-bràthar. Ach aig amannan tha e air a bhith gu math aonaranach agus sgìtheil."

Tha còrr is 141,000 pàisde ann an Sasainn is a' Chuimrigh coltach ri Savannah, gan togail le luchd-cùraim dàimh. Mar as trice 's e càirdean a th' annta, mar Clive, no caraidean teaghlaich a thig a-steach gus casg a chuir air clann nach urrainn dha am pàrantan coimhead às an dèidh tuilleadh bho dhol a-steach don t-siostam cùraim.

A dh'aindeoin cho mòr 's a tha seirbheisean chloinne an urra ri cùram dàimh – bidh a dhà uiread de chloinn a' dol an sàs ann an rèiteachaidhean dàimh 's a thèid a chur an cùram-altraim – tha e fhathast iongantach gu bheil e neo-fhoirmeil, le glè bheag de na taicean practaigeach, laghail is ionmhasail a thig le cùram-altraim no uchd-mhacachd. Tha e coltach gu bheil cùram dàimh do-fhaicsinneach do luchd-dèanamh-poileasaidh gu tric.

Tha eòlas Clive – le dìreach uairean a thìde airson co-dhùnadh a dhèanamh a dh'atharraicheas a bheatha mu dheidhinn a bhith a' gabhail thairis cùram neach a tha dlùth dha – fada bho bhith neo-àbhaisteach. Lorg sgrùdadh ùr leis a' charthannas cùraim Kinship gun deach ceithir às gach deichnear de luchd-cùraim nas lugha na uair a thìde airson co-dhùnadh. Bha nas lugha na 24 uair a thìde aig còigeamh eile.

Chaidh Alan agus Julie, a tha le chèile 65, aAlan agus Julie chaidh 10 mionaidean a thoirt dhaibh airson co-dhùnadh am biodh iad a' gabhail a-steach an ogha aca le ciorram trom, Ella, a bha 10 mìosan a dh'aois aig an àm. Bha iad dìreach air tilleadh dhachaigh gu Leeds às dèidh saor-làithean nuair a ghairm seirbheisean sòisealta iad.

Tha Ella, a tha a-nis naoi, air a bhith a' fuireach còmhla ri a sean-phàrantan Alan agus Julie bho bha i 10 mìosan a dh'aois. Dealbh: Saskia Albers/Portray Your Story

"Thuirt iad: 'Tha an t-àite seo a' dùnadh ann an 10 mionaidean. Feumaidh fios a bhith againn a bheil thu deònach an leanabh a ghabhail, air neo thèid i gu cùram ùghdarrais ionadail agus is dòcha nach fhaic thu a-rithist i,'" tha Alan a' cuimhneachadh. "Gu dearbh, cha robh e na cheist. Thuirt sinn gun gabhadh sinn sa bhad i, dìreach mar a dhèanamaid airson gin de ar