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@media (min-width: 71.25em) {Babban ginshiƙin abun ciki na labarai masu mu'amala yana da gefen hagu na 1px solid #dcdcdc, wanda aka sanya a -10px tare da z-index na -1. A kan allo aƙalla 81.25em faɗi, wannan iyakar tana motsawa zuwa -11px.
A cikin wannan ginshiƙi, abubuwan atom ba su da tazarar sama ko ƙasa amma suna samun 12px na padding a duka sama da ƙasa. Lokacin da sakin layi ya biyo bayan wani abu na atom, ana cire padding ɗin kuma a maye gurbinsa da tazarar 12px a maimako.
Abubuwan da ke cikin layi an iyakance su a matsakaicin faɗi na 620px. A kan allo aƙalla 61.25em faɗi, siffofi na cikin layi suma suna ƙarewa a 620px.
Ga abubuwan watsa labarai da ke ɗauke da siffa mai maimaitawa, figcaption ɗin yana zaune a z-index 6 sai dai idan an ɓoye shi. Maɓallin maimaita bidiyo yana daidaitawa zuwa ƙasan dama tare da tazarar ƙasa na 40px da tazarar dama na 3px. Kwantena na sarrafa shiru da cire shiru an sanya su a gefen dama tare da 10px na padding na hagu. Maɓallin caption ɗin yana zaune a z-index 100, kuma a kan allo aƙalla 61.25em faɗi, yana motsawa sama da 20px daga ƙasa.
A kan allo aƙalla 46.25em faɗi, kwantena na cinemagraph ba su da matsakaicin tsayi.
Tsibiran bidiyo masu sarrafa kansu a cikin jiki cikakke ne, an iyakance su a 620px, kuma an nuna su azaman tubalan tare da tazarar sama da ƙasa na 12px. Siffofinsu masu maimaitawa da bidiyonsu suma cikakke ne, tsayi mai atomatik, an iyakance su a 620px, kuma an daidaita su a tsakiya. Lokacin da bidiyon yake immersive, tsibirin yana faɗaɗa zuwa cikakken faɗi tare da tazarar tsaye na 12px, kuma siffar da bidiyon sun rasa iyakar faɗinsu da daidaitawa a tsakiya. A kan allo aƙalla 71.25em faɗi, tsibirin immersive yana zama 1140px faɗi kuma yana motsawa hagu da 180px, tare da figcaptions da aka yi wa indent 20px. A kan allo aƙalla 81.25em faɗi, yana faɗaɗa zuwa 1300px kuma yana motsawa hagu da 260px.
Tushen yana bayyana wasu kaddarori na musamman da yawa: launin dateline #606060, iyakar header #dcdcdc, rubutun caption #999, bangon caption hsla(0, 0%, 7%, .72), launin fasali #c70000, da sabon launin pillar wanda ke komawa zuwa launin pillar na farko ko launin fasali. Rubutun subheading, rubutun pullquote, da gumakan pullquote duk suna amfani da launin pillar na biyu, yayin da rubutun blockquote ke amfani da launin rubutun labarin. Blockquotes suna samun launin cikawa daga pillar na biyu.
A yanayin duhu (sai dai idan an saita tsarin launi a fili zuwa haske), rubutun subheading, rubutun pullquote, da gumakan pullquote suna canzawa zuwa launin pillar na yanayin duhu, kuma blockquotes suna amfani da wannan launi ɗaya don cikawarsu.
Abubuwan atom a cikin ginshiƙin babban mai mu'amala ba su da padding. Lokacin da wani abu na atom shine na farko na nau'insa kuma sakin layi ya biyo baya, ƙofar shiga, wani abu na atom, ko makamancin haka, sakin layi na gaba yana samun tazara ta musamman. Hakanan ya shafi layukan kwance waɗanda ba na ƙarshe ba, da kuma sakin layi da ke biyo bayan wuraren talla. Waɗannan dokoki kuma suna aiki ga abubuwan atom a cikin div ɗin jikin labarin.Rubutun da kuka bayar lambar CSS ce, ba rubutun yare ba, don haka babu Ingilishi na halitta da za a sake rubutawa. Saitin masu zaɓe ne da dokoki waɗanda ke ƙara 14px na padding na sama ga wasu sakin layi kuma suna amfani da salon harafi na farko a cikin takamaiman kwantena.
Idan kuna so, zan iya bayyana abin da wannan CSS ɗin yake yi a cikin Ingilishi mai sauƙi, ko in taimaka muku wajen sauƙaƙa ko sake tsara shi.Ba zan iya sake rubuta wannan a matsayin Ingilishi mai gudana ba—lambar CSS ce, ba rubutun yare ba. Idan kuna so, zan iya bayyana abin da CSS ɗin yake yi a cikin Ingilishi mai sauƙi, ko kuna iya liƙa ainihin rubutun da kuke son sake rubutawa.Wannan lambar CSS tana bayyana shimfidar amsa don kanun labarai, kanun labarai, metadata, da rubutun standfirst. Yana amfani da CSS Grid don tsara waɗannan abubuwa a faɗin allo daban-daban, tare da wuraren tsayawa a 980px, 1140px, da 1300px. Shimfidar tana daidaita tsarin ginshiƙi da layi, tana ƙara layukan iyaka, kuma tana salo hanyoyin haɗi tare da layin ƙasa. Hakanan yana sarrafa abubuwan siffa kuma yana tabbatar da tazara da daidaitawa mai kyau don gabatarwa mai tsabta, irin ta mujalla..furniture-wrapper #standfirst:before, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=standfirst]:before { left: -0.5px; } } .furniture-wrapper .article-header .content__labels > div, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=title] .content__labels > div { padding-top: 2px; } .furniture-wrapper #headline h1, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=headline] h1, .furniture-wrapper .headline h1 { font-weight: 600; max-width: 620px; font-size: 32px; } @media (min-width: 71.25em) { .furniture-wrapper #headline h1, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=headline] h1, .furniture-wrapper .headline h1 { max-width: 540px; font-size: 50px; } } @media (min-width: 46.25em) { .furniture-wrapper .keyline-4, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=lines] { margin-right: 0; } } @media (min-width: 61.25em) { .furniture-wrapper .keyline-4, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=lines] { display: none; } } .furniture-wrapper .keyline-4 svg, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=lines] svg { stroke: var(--headerBorder); } @media (min-width: 46.25em) { .furniture-wrapper #meta, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=meta] { margin-right: 0; } } .furniture-wrapper #meta .meta__social, .furniture-wrapper #meta .meta__social ul li a span, .furniture-wrapper #meta .meta__comment, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=meta] .meta__social, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=meta] .meta__social ul li a span, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=meta] .meta__comment { border-color: var(--headerBorder); } .furniture-wrapper #meta .content__meta-container_dcr > div > gu-island, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=meta] .content__meta-container_dcr > div > gu-island { display: none; } .furniture-wrapper .standfirst, .furniture-wrapper #standfirst, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=standfirst] { margin-left: -10px; padding-left: 10px; position: relative; } @media (min-width: 46.25em) { .furniture-wrapper .standfirst, .furniture-wrapper #standfirst, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=standfirst] { padding-top: 2px; } } .furniture-wrapper .standfirst p, .furniture-wrapper #standfirst p, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=standfirst] p { font-weight: 400; font-size: 20px; padding-bottom: 14px; } .furniture-wrapper #main-media, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=media] { position: relative; margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 2px; grid-area: portrait; } .furniture-wrapper #main-media div div, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=media] div div { width: 100%; margin-inline: 0; } @media (min-width: 61.25em) { .furniture-wrapper #main-media, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=media] { margin-bottom: 0; } } @media (max-width: 46.24em) { .furniture-wrapper #main-media, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=media] { width: calc(100vw - var(--scrollbar-width, 0px)); margin-left: -10px; } } @media (max-width: 46.24em) and (min-width: 30em) { .furniture-wrapper #main-media, .furniture-wrapper [data-gu-name=media] { margin-left: -20px; } } .furniture-wrapper figcaption { position: absolute; bottom: 0; padding: 4px 10px 12px; background-color: var(--captionBackground); color: var(--captionText); max-width: unset; margin-bottom: 0; min-height: 46px; } .furniture-wrapper figcaption span { color: var(--headerBorder); } .furniture-wrapper figcaption span svg { fill: var(--headerBorder); } .furniture-wrapper figcaption span:nth-of-type(1) { display: none; } .furniture-wrapper figcaption span:nth-of-type(2) { display: inline; max-width: 90%; } @media (min-width: 30em) { .furniture-wrapper figcaption { padding: 4px 20px 12px; } } .furniture-wrapper figcaption.hidden { opacity: 0; } .furniture-wrapper #caption-button { display: block; position: absolute; bottom: 10px; right: 8px; z-index: 30; background-color: var(--captionBackground); border: none; border-radius: 50%; padding: 6px 5px 5px; } .furniture-wrapper #caption-button svg { transform: scale(0.85); } @media (min-width: 30em) { .furniture-wrapper #caption-button { right: 10px; } } @media (min-width: 71.25em) { .content__main-column--interactive:before { top: -12px !important; height: calc(100% + 24px) !important; } } .content__main-column--interactive h2 { max-width: 620px; } @media (prefers-color-scheme: dark) { :root:root:not([data-color-scheme=light]) { --follow-text: #dcdcdc; --follow-icon-fill: var(--darkmode-pillar); --standfirst-text: #dcdcdc; --standfirst-link-text: var(--darkmode-pillar); --standfirst-link-border: var(--darkmode-pillar); --byline: var(--darkmode-pillar); } } .article .article__body h2, article.content--interactiClive yana tunawa ranar da ya zama mai kula da dangi kamar jiya. Babu wani gargadi, babu lokacin gane abin da zai shiga ciki.
"Ma'aikacin jin dadin jama'a ya tafi, kofar ta rufe, Savannah na kwance a cikin gadon jariri, an nade ta da bargo mai ruwan hoda. Ta yi kama da kwanciyar hankali da kwanciyar hankali, ba ta san abin da ya faru ba.
"An yi shiru mai ban tsoro a gidan. Ni da ita ne kawai da wata karamar akwati dauke da wasu kaya. Na fashe da kuka. Malami ne, amma horon malamai ba ya shirya ka don kula da jariri.
"Ban san yadda ake canza diaper ba. Ba ni da keken turawa ko gadon jariri. Ban san inda za ta kwana ba. Ba ni da komai."
'Yan sa'o'i kadan da suka wuce, Clive, shugaban makarantar firamare, ya sami kira a wurin aiki daga sashen kula da yara. Ya zaci magana ce game da daya daga cikin dalibansa, amma game da 'yar'uwarsa mai makonni shida ce. Shin zai, a matsayin dan uwa, dauke ta cikin kulawa na wucin gadi?
Savannah da Clive. 'Na ce eh - sannan na magance sakamakon daga baya.' Hoto: Saskia Albers/Portray Your Story
"Don haka na ce a hankali, 'Eh, babu matsala. Zan bukaci gyara wasu abubuwa, don haka ba ni kwana biyu.' Suka ce, 'A'a, tana bukatar zuwa wurinka yau. Muna bukatar mu sauke ta karfe hudu.'
"Na tambaya, 'To, me zai faru idan ban ce eh ba yau?' Suka ce za su sami 'wasu zabuka.' Don haka na fara firgita: idan ta shiga kulawar reno ko a dauke ta? Don haka na ce eh - sannan na magance sakamakon daga baya."
"Na tafi gida na zauna a can ina jira. Abin mamaki ne domin ina tsammanin ban taba zama a gida da karfe 3:30 na rana a ranar makaranta ba. Sannan kulawar jama'a ta iso ta sauke ta. Kuma shi ke nan.
"Na mayar da hankali ne kawai kan aikina. A koyaushe ina mai son aiki. Sannan aka dora mini jariri da ban taba shirya ba."
Clive, wanda a lokacin yana shekaru 32, yanzu ya yarda cewa ya kasance butulci game da sakamakon shawarar da ta canza rayuwarsa. Shekaru tara bayan haka, tare da zama "na wucin gadi" ya zama na dindindin, "Kawu Clive" shine mai kula da Savannah bisa doka, ko da yake tana cikin hulɗa akai-akai da iyayenta na haihuwa. Yana sonta sosai, kuma nasu labari ne na nasarar kula da dangi mai ratsa zuciya. Har yanzu tana da bargo mai ruwan hoda. Amma hanyar, in ji shi, duk da farin ciki da cikawa, ba koyaushe ta kasance mai santsi ba.
Clive yanzu shine mai kula da Savannah bisa doka, kuma sun zauna tare shekaru tara. Hoto: Saskia Albers/Portray Your Story
"Zan sake yin duka. Wannan shine mafi kyawun abin da zai iya faruwa ga 'yar'uwata. Amma a wasu lokuta yakan kasance mai warewa da gajiya."
Fiye da yara 141,000 a Ingila da Wales suna kama da Savannah, ana renon su ta hanyar masu kula da dangi. Waɗannan yawanci dangi ne, kamar Clive, ko abokan iyali waɗanda ke shiga don hana yaran da iyayensu ba za su iya kula da su ba shiga tsarin kulawa.
Duk da yawan da sashen kula da yara ya dogara da kulawar dangi - ninki biyu na yara suna shiga shirye-shiryen dangi kamar yadda ake reno - har yanzu abin mamaki ne cewa ba a tsara shi ba, tare da kaɗan daga cikin tallafin aiki, doka, da kuɗi da ke zuwa tare da reno ko daukar yaro. Kulawar dangi sau da yawa tana kama da ganuwa ga masu tsara manufofi.
Kwarewar Clive - an ba shi sa'o'i kawai don yanke shawara mai canza rayuwa game da ko zai karbi kulawar wanda yake so - ba sabon abu ba ne. Wani sabon bincike da ƙungiyar agaji ta Kinship ta gudanar ya gano cewa hudu cikin goma na masu kula an ba su ƙasa da awa ɗaya don yanke shawara. Wani kashi biyar kuma suna da ƙasa da awanni 24.
Alan da Julie, dukansu 65, anAlan da Julie an ba su minti 10 don yanke shawara ko za su karbi jikarsu mai tsananin nakasa, Ella, wacce a lokacin tana da watanni 10. Sun dawo gida Leeds bayan hutu lokacin da ayyukan jin dadin jama'a suka kira.
Ella, yanzu tana da shekaru tara, tana zaune tare da kakanninta Alan da Julie tun tana da watanni 10. Hoto: Saskia Albers/Portray Your Story
"Suka ce: 'Wannan wurin yana rufe cikin minti 10. Muna bukatar sanin ko kuna shirye ku karbi yaron, ko kuma za ta shiga kulawar karamar hukuma kuma wataƙila ba za ku sake ganinta ba,'" in ji Alan. "Tabbas, ba wani abu ba ne. Muka ce za mu karbi ta nan take, kamar yadda za mu yi wa kowane jikanmu."
Bayan yanke wannan shawara cikin daƙiƙa, kusan duk masu kula da dangi sun ce rayuwarsu ta canza sosai. Tasirin yana da yawa kuma ba koyaushe a bayyane yake nan take ba, kuma tallafin hukuma na iya zama mara daidaituwa ko babu shi. Cikin dare, akwai ƙarin mutum a gida don ciyarwa da tufatarwa, wanda ƙila ya fuskanci rauni kuma yana da buƙatu na musamman. Sau da yawa akwai matsin lamba na ba zato ba tsammani kan kuɗi, lafiyar masu kula, da dangantakar iyali mai faɗi.
Yawancin masu kula da dangi suna barin aiki, sau da yawa bisa buƙatar ayyukan jin dadin jama'a. Clive ya firgita cewa zai iya barin aikinsa. Ya damu cewa ba zai iya biyan jinginar gida ba idan hakan ta faru, kuma idan ya rasa gidan, za a kai Savannah cikin kulawar reno.
Ya yi sa'a: makarantarsa ta ba shi goyon baya sosai kuma ta ba shi damar yin aiki cikin sassauci - yana tunawa yana ba Savannah nono yayin da yake jagorantar zaman horo na ma'aikata. Hakanan yana da ƙaƙƙarfan hanyar sadarwa ta abokai da dangi. Amma ya sani daga ƙungiyoyin tallafi da Kinship ke gudanarwa cewa sauran masu kula ba su da irin wannan sa'a.
Leasa, 56, da Oly, 57, daga yammacin London, sun ce bayan yanke shawarar gaggawa ta kula da 'ya'yansu, Jake da Luke, dole ne su yi gwagwarmaya don tallafin da suka zaci zai zo kai tsaye. Tare da ɗansu a gida, kwatsam mutane biyar sun cunkushe a cikin ƙaramin ɗakinsu mai ɗakuna biyu, amma majalisar ba ta nuna sha'awa ba.
Leasa, Oly, Luke da Jake. 'Mahaifiyata ta zaci na haukace,' in ji Leasa. Hoto: Saskia Albers/Portray Your Story
Oly ya tuna ya taɓa tambaya game da zama mai reno, amma an gaya masa ba shi da dama saboda gidansa bai isa ba. Hakan bai nuna da muhimmanci ba game da kulawar dangi. Lokacin da ya tambayi mai gidansa na ƙungiyar gidaje game da ƙaura zuwa wani fili mafi girma, kafin 'ya'yansa su iso, babu tausayi. "An gaya mini: 'Me ya sa kake sa gidanka ya cika da cunkoso?'"
Leasa da Oly har yanzu suna cikin ɗakin, kuma shekaru biyar da suka wuce, suna kwana a kan gadon sofa a falo. ɗakin cike yake da akwatunan ajiya, kuma shine wur
